During the second last week of March, my husband and I travelled to Washington DC for the Annual Psychotherapy Networker Conference. I was privileged to attend several sessions, and enjoyed many of the offerings. Of course, committed to approaching our marriage as two independently-codependently attached self-actualized people, we each went our own way for session teaching, always returning to one another over lunch & dinner to discuss some of the interesting things we respectively learned. The conference exceeded both our expectations. It was well organized and staffed by a number of friendly volunteers who were quick to answer any questions we had. Held at the Omni Shoreham Hotel, the site was a perfect blend of American heritage and modern service. It was a truly wonderful hotel that we highly recommend to any of you that might be planning a trip to visit friends, cousins, and business associates in the USA. Friday morning’s keynote address on ” The myth of Normal in an insane culture” was given by a Canadian physician Gabor Mate https://drgabormate.com/.
Dr. Gabor’s address was characteristically Canadian with deferential references to our collective impulse to “thank” machines, such as the ATM after a transaction. His talk reflected the sage wisdom of a highly experienced physician working with people in need of compassionate mental health care and support. In fact, his private two-session training, to which I did not gain entrance, was adeptly entitled the Compassionate Inquiry. Having recently read, Beverly Engle’s book, It wasn’t your Fault, on a relatively newer intervention referred to as Compassionate Mind Training (CMT), Dr. Gabor’s talk truly resonated with me, as both sensitive and timely. My personal “take away” from his talk on the difference between Individualism & Individuality was only touched upon quickly, perhaps because of the culturally provocative nature of his ideas. The good doctor remarked on our responsibility to challenge ourselves on the differences between these two concepts. In his view, individualism referred to the rugged American ideal to reach for the golden arches of economic success through independence, hard work & freedom. Individuality was described as the freedom to express one’s sense of self in independent, and sometimes, unconventional ways.
Dr. Mate challenged us to think about the ways we work to support vulnerable people who for whatever reason might not have access to or the means to achieve on their own without a helping hand. He encouraged us to think about the ways our practices and systems support the most vulnerable in society.
As reflective practitioners, have you considered the ways you empower and foster your client’s individuality in session? How does a person’s individuality change or impact your theories, models, or planned treatment programs? Are you interested in clinical supervision on the implementation of CMT in clinical sessions with individuals ? If so, have you conducted research to explore who in your own community has the experience, skill, and compassion to provide case-based supervision that best fits your needs?
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